Sunday, September 9, 2007

Immortal issues

Well,I really dislike debating over common topics but there are some issues you just cant ignore or rather are too provoking.Well I've witnessed so many arguements on whether love marriage is more applicable than arranged. Another famous topic for discussion is whether uniforms are to be initiated in colleges. Then we've got the Nobel award winning topic: If men are smarter than women.
I was wondering the other day if men are more egoistic than women.I don't know if i am right by saying that half of the time,women compromise because they have digested the fact that men can never get emotional and can never fall at our feet (implied only majority and not all ).And yes,we have seen the upgrade of the women community by eminent leaders and all but still don't you think somewhere we women -atleast indian women do follow our tradition and have learnt to adjust and compromise on the silliest of the matter.The point i want to stress here is that women compromise first.This does not refer to just romantic relationships,could be something between siblings,parents,or even friends.

10 comments:

annie said...

Women sacrifice and still suffer!

praveen said...

Ya..tats true...Most women compromise first...but there are few egoistic....

Kalyan said...

Its very true that by nature, Women generally compromise first, but these days Men also sometimes compromise first, although thats very rare. Its almost all about maintaining a relationship properly or staying happy that someone has to compromise.

Alok said...

I agree with Praveen, sometimes tables turn as well :)

but wirrespective of who compromises, in my view comprmise shld never be the premise of any relationship

alok

Ananth said...

Hi!

I agree with Alok - if compromise has to be done, it should be a joint effort for something both the male and female counterparts want together.
And yeah turns to compromise do come now and then in a relationship, inspite of all the ideal talk, and it's not about who went first - it's how bad you want to see that smile on your partner's face.

What do you say?

Neha Nair said...

praveen: Thats exactly what i wanted to discuss i.e. women compramise more.

ananth:I don't think it works that way all the time. If it did ,we can get rid of the 70% divorce cases in out country

deepak said...

well compromises are tagged with a wide spectrum of reasons which can be rationalised in most of the cases...sumtimes it is done as a sacrifice,sumtime for Love,sumtimes in the pretext of gaining sum thing...well in all the cases it doesn't refer to a weak state of mind and who ever does it,whether it is men or women becomes Noble...And in the the previous blog i saw that casetism is being discussed..i feel that everything started sprouting when men/women started to think that they are superior/smarter than the other..So let z say No to Racism..and be happy

joey said...

yes u r 100% correct... i think it because of the culture and tradition which is followed frm past where gals were burden and all tat.. which i think is the stupidest thing... now back to ur views.. now the world is changing rapidly and the older traditions r not been followed as well and in future it will be different altogether which i believe... one of the two has to sacrifice for sure but in future it will be either man or a women sacrifice first will be decided on and it will not be for sure that women sacrifice first...

Vikas said...

I think everything is utter rubbish!
Dont u guys have any other work rather than discussing men women differences... C'mon, There are two kind of genres cos they were meant to be different... Thing to thing..it varies..Whats the big deal to discuss?? Everyone can be proud of being a man...or being a woman...!

adi said...

well, generalizations are harmful for the health of public discourse...